Moving On…
22 Nov 2009 39 Comments
So after a month of not being online, I’m back.
Getting over someone is not easy especially if you were with him for a long time or you thought it would last forever. Recently, I’ve been trying to get over a breakup and an hour before that I’m talking about how well everything is and even sharing stories about our tours such as in Hongkong, Boracay, Cebu, Bohol, Baguio, Pangasinan, Macau, Singapore among many others then an hour later I’ve talked about a heartbreak at a seriously horrible timing.
Though we’re almost complete opposites in just about EVERYTHING. (I guess opposites really do attract) He’s still my 1st boyfriend and after 7 long years of relationship, All of a sudden it just ended so quickly and I never thought about how much would I be affected by it that even if I’ve had a good roster that gave me Manila, Milan & Paris at the same week, I didn’t even bother to go out and just stayed in my room. I know every person is different in coping up some need to keep busy, find someone better, focus on career, etc. but there has to be some way to find closure. Getting over it takes time and maybe needed a few months, but they said you’d eventually move on.
Lesson Learned: You own your own happiness. No one can give it but yourself. You don’t need a partner to make you happy. You don’t need a ring on your finger to be secured. Happiness is a state of mind. Follow what makes you happy and always believe God has better plans for you just always look for the brighter side.
“Life is a Series of Departure and Arrivals…”
Nov 24, 2009 @ 05:56:19
Hey star! First time Ive seen your blog made me really go nuts about your achievements and standing. You are a real epitome of a woman and i am sure enough that there are a lotta men lining up for you.
I know it will take time, it would always be a process.
I am happy that you realize what real happiness is. You go girl! You deserve better and lastly, single is in! and sassy!
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 08:46:31
natouch naman ako sa story mo sis.. sayang ang 7 years pero tama ka.. true happiness should start from within, so it could be reflected on others too.. good luck sa single life mo.. this time, you will be able to discover the happiness of being absolutely free
Nov 24, 2009 @ 12:10:58
Star,
I am just so shock to find out this…. I am terribly sorry to hear about this and i know it is not easy as i myself is experiencing it now…..
Been reading your blog for quite sometimes but i am a silent reader all the while…. It is so true that happiness is a state of mind and keep it up my dear. Pray to God and always remember that he loves you….
Loving your blog and loving your traveling life and wish i could live an interesting life like yours….. Keep it up Star and your have such a bright future ahead of you and all the best in life and wish to see you blogging more often.
God bless…..
Nov 24, 2009 @ 19:07:23
Ate Star, I do believe that God has better plans for you. Kaya mo yan.. Well we’re just glad you’re back blogging. Don’t think about it too much, I’m sure you have lot of friends to keep you happy =)
Nov 24, 2009 @ 20:51:02
i agree. you have a full life ahead of you. don’t dwell on the past.
trust in the Lord, Star. He will make up to you. these will all pass…
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 04:20:13
Oh My Gosh
Oh my gosh sis, I didn’t expect this from you. Parang ang saya-saya nyo whenever you talk about him. And now bigla mong ibabalita na break na kayo. I feel sad for you sis. I just hope you get over him soon. Everything happens for a reason. Baka nga talaga hindi sya para sayo.
Nov 25, 2009 @ 14:17:17
hi,
i always follow you in almost all your site especially your friendster and multiply account.
your amazing woman… all your accomplishment speak of who and what you are…
and i follow your advice tips, and your pictures gives to a lot of people a hope and a warm feelings TO US…
YOU CAN GO ON ….
GOD HAS A BETTER PLAN FOR YOU..
STAY AS BUBBLY AND PRETTY ALWAYS..
CHEERS….
Nov 26, 2009 @ 01:25:57
Sigh…. I know how it feels like. I too have almost 8 years of relationship gone haywire… Easier said than done,,, but one day you’ll gonna feel okay and truly move on to find a better, happier life…
Some lessons learned – it’ll gonna be better the next time and you’ll gonna be wiser to realize you don’t actually need someone to be happy.
Nov 26, 2009 @ 09:50:28
Ms Star I do believe you’re a strong woman.
Kaya mo yan. I admire you for your optimism =)
Nov 26, 2009 @ 13:02:45
ate star i’m sorry to hear that. i have been one of your supporters since then. you’re my number one idol, actually. don’t worry for tomorrow for God’s already there. life has many to offer. just have your self preoccupied by those. don’t think too much. just think of having a zit
we’ll always be here for you.
…commit to the Lord whatever you do and your plans will succeed
Nov 27, 2009 @ 18:27:41
hi there! i’m one of your fans
like all readers, i envy your life & your achievements..
it’s sad to hear about this. anyway, i know that things happen for a reason. God bless
Nov 28, 2009 @ 02:13:41
^ Thank you for all your comments… Tapos na ang emote mode ko, I feel so better and happy now.. Just like the status on my Facebook that says:
“Every book has a story to tell with an ending. But there’s no such thing as an ending, the book ends but the story continues. Our book ends now, but my story continues. LIFE GOES ON…”
Nov 29, 2009 @ 01:19:50
Hi Star! I had the same situation almost a year ago, I admire you for embracing the change that fast because I know how hard it could be. Stay strong sweetie
God bless!